只知道这个参数pg_stat_replication，没试过软件，你可以看看ClusterControl这个软件

postgres=# select * from pg_stat_replication ;
pid | usesysid | usename | application_name | client_addr | client_hostname | client_port | backend_start | backend_xmin | state | sent_lsn | write_lsn | flush_lsn | replay
_lsn | write_lag | flush_lag | replay_lag | sync_priority | sync_state
------+----------+---------+------------------+---------------+-----------------+-------------+-------------------------------+--------------+-----------+------------+------------+------------+-------
-----+-----------+-----------+------------+---------------+------------
4364 | 16384 | repuser | node2 | 192.168.12.11 | | 46342 | 2021-11-01 22:20:10.003338-04 | | streaming | 0/4F508D70 | 0/4F508D70 | 0/4F508D70 | 0/4F50
8D70 | | | | 1 | sync
(1 row)
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sent_lsn：wal发送进程最近发送的位置
write_lsn：备库最近写入的wal日志位置
flush_lsn：主库落盘后等待备库接受的wal日志，wal日志流已写入备库，但还没有应用wal日志，并返回确认信息
replay_lsn：主库已落盘，备库已应用wal日志并返回确认信息
write_lag:主库已落盘，等待备库落盘，且wal日志流还在操作系统缓存中
sync_priority:优先级备库
sync_state:同步状态

pg_top、pgcenter等很多工具都可以